Thursday, June 02, 2005

Chapel with Bobby

The following selection comes from Gary E. Weedman
Provost, Palm Beach Atlantic College

Every small college seems to have at least one student like Bobby. He was, to be kind, socially challenged. He came from the hills of north Georgia and from an unfortunate family background. He had spent a considerable part of his life in an orphanage. He dressed funny- in striped shirts and checked pants. He looked funny, often having a quizzical grin. He talked funny, at times with a slight stutter and basic articulation problems.

Human nature being what it is, even on a Christian campus, Bobby became the convenient butt of many campus jokes and pranks by the more sophisticated on campus. He always received this mischief with more good nature than any of the perpetrators would have done. There was the famous cat- food incident when some of his friends made some sandwiches, allegedly from ham salad but actually cat food, and shared them with the unsuspecting, trusting Bobby. The joke was all the more humorous when he back for more. He was the kind of student everyone remembers.

What was the most memorable about Bobby for me, however, was not his eccentricities or ever the way that he responded to cruelty masked as practical jokes. What he did during a chapel service during my sophomore year is what stands out in my mind. The scheduled speaker did not appear and the person presiding asked the student body if anyone had anything to say. Bobby readily volunteered. He approached the pulpit of the chapel, dressed in his normal, cast- off clothes. The audience reacted typically, with muffled giggles, wondering what entertaining strangeness would follow.

Bobby stood on the platform with his characteristically vacant grin and looked around the audience for many minutes without saying a word. Finally, the giggling stopped and he began: Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful. But his delight is in the law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day and night. And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper. (Psalm 1:1-3)

After quoting Psalm 1 in its entirety from memory, he explained, in his tortured way, that the great desire of his life was to be the kind of person described in the psalm. He wanted to delight in the law of the Lord, not to be a deceitful person or a scornful man. He said he was a blessed man because of his friends at the college, and he thanked us all for being his friends.

I remember no other chapel sermon from that school year besides Bobby's. I remember well his simple eloquence and the pain of my own remorse. After the benediction, we filed quietly out of the chapel. My friends and I saw Bobby in a different light. He had not changed, but we had been changed by the power of the Word that we heard through him. I am not able to rejoice in the variety, the eccentricities, of God's people. I cannot read Psalm without the power of that sermon touching me anew.

Excerpt from College Faith (2002)

Tuesday, May 24, 2005

音樂治療的功效

以下是一位大學音樂系的學生在修過音樂治療的課程之後對於音樂治療的見解:

「在上學期的音樂心理學課中,我們做了給綠豆聽不同性質的音樂,這讓我知道了不同的音樂會生出不同的生長方向。」

評析:
  1. 這門課程的名稱顯然跟學生所學有所出入。建議學校將這門課改名為「植物發展心理學」。
  2. 建議這門課的教授將研究結果發表,同時出版新專輯「Music for Green Bean」。
  3. 建議將這位同學重修大一國文。

Tuesday, May 03, 2005

The Paradoxical Commandments of Leadership

by Dr. Kent M. Keith

People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered - Love them anyway.

If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives - Do good anyway.

If you are successful, you win false friends and true enemies - Succeed anyway.

The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow - Do good anyway.

Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable - Be honest and frank anyway.

The biggest men and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men and women with the smallest minds - Think big anyway.

People favor underdogs but follow only top dogs - Fight for a few underdogs anyway.

What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight - Build anyway.

People really need help but may attack you if you do help them - Help people anyway.

Give the world the best you have and you'll get kicked in the teeth - Give the world the best you have anyway.

If better is possible, then good is not enough.

Wednesday, April 27, 2005

論文產生器

這是從Wonderland的留言版上轉貼過來的:

※ [本文轉錄自 Iriss 看板]
作者: Iriss (你不說我怎麼知道) 看板: Iriss
標題: [轉錄][轉錄] 連電腦都來和我們搶飯碗.....
時間: Fri Apr 15 07:49:21 2005

http://www.pdos.lcs.mit.edu/scigen/
沒錯 MIT又出瘋子了
一群研究生寫了一個程式,可以randomly generate computer science領域的paper 可以自動產生文字、圖、參考文獻等內容

這並不稀奇,神奇的是,他們拿這些paper去投稿conference
竟然還上了WMSCI 2005.......當然,很明顯這個會議是沒什麼水準的會
(他們開發這個程式的其中一個目的就是抓出這些死賺錢的會議)
既然上了,就要去囉...這些沒錢的研究生就開始在網路上募款
(奇怪,都到MIT了怎麼會沒錢:p)
他們要根據他們的paper,給一個randomly-generated talk
同時偷渡一個人進去會場錄影,放到網路上
預算是13xx美金,三天之內(至少從我收到這封信到現在)
他們已經募到12xx大洋了
CS的人真慘,連電腦都開始和人搶研究飯吃....:p

Friday, March 11, 2005

Mentored by my neighbor

The following story was submitted by Sherel Bowen and is authored by Bob Perks, http://www.beliefnet.com/author/author_148.html

A young man learns what's most important in life from the guy next door.

It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man. College, girls, career, and life itself got in the way. In fact, Jack moved clear across the country in pursuit of his dreams. There, in the rush of his busy life, Jack had little time to think about the past and often no time to spend with his wife and son. He was working on his future, and nothing could stop him.

Over the phone, his mother told him, "Mr. Belser died last night. The funeral is Wednesday."

Memories flashed through his mind like an old newsreel as he sat quietly remembering his childhood days.

"Jack, did you hear me?"

"Oh sorry, Mom. Yes, I heard you. It's been so long since I thought of him. I'm sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago," Jack said.

"Well, he didn't forget you. Every time I saw him he'd ask how you were doing. He'd reminisce about the many days you spent over 'his side of the fence' as he put it," Mom told him.

"I loved that old house he lived in," Jack said. "You know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make sure you had a man's influence in your life," she said.

"He's the one who taught me carpentry," he said. "I wouldn't be in this business if it weren't for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me things he thought were important...Mom, I'll be there for the funeral," Jack said. As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his hometown. Mr. Belser's funeral was small and uneventful. He had no children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away.

The night before he had to return home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to see the old house next door one more time. Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like crossing over into another dimension, a leap through space and time.

The house was exactly as he remembered. Every step held memories. Every picture, every piece of furniture....Jack stopped suddenly."What's wrong, Jack?" his Mom asked. "The box is gone," he said.

"What box?" Mom asked.

"There was a small gold box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he'd ever tell me was 'the thing I value most, '" Jack said.

It was gone. Everything about the house was exactly how Jack remembered it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had taken it.

"Now I'll never know what was so valuable to h im," Jack said. "I better get some sleep. I have an early flight home , Mom."

It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died. Returning home from work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. "Signature required on a package. No one at home. Please stop by the main post office within the next three days," the note read.

Early the next day Jack retrieved the package. The small box was old and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention.

"Mr. Harold Belser" it read.

Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package There inside was the gold box and an envelope. Jack's hands shook as he read the note inside.

"Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack Bennett. It's the thing I valued most in my life." A small key was taped to the letter. His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack carefully unlocked the box. There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch.

Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover.

Inside he found these words engraved: "Jack, Thanks for your time! -Harold Belser."

"The thing he valued most...was...my time."

Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and cleared his appointments for the next two days. "Why?" Janet, his assistant asked.

"I need some time to spend with my son," he said. "Oh, by the way, Janet...thanks for your time!"

Wednesday, February 23, 2005

You never know...

You never know
When you meet someone
Will she be the one

You never know...

And I wonder to myself
I wonder to myself

Are you beautiful on the inside...

---lyrics from Banana Republic TV commercial---

Tuesday, February 22, 2005

Three Levels of Leadership

Leadership can be viewed on three levels. From least effective to
most effective, these levels may be defined this way:

LEVEL ONE: IMPRESS
The leader impresses followers. This can be done with little or no
relationship. It requires only the will of the leader to be involved. He must want to leave a memorable impression on the
followers.

LEVEL TWO: INFLUENCE
The leader influences followers. This can be done with some
relationship between the two. It requires the will of the follower
to be involved. He must want to be influenced by the leader.

LEVEL THREE: IMPACT
The leader impacts followers. This can only be done through
intimate relationships. It requires both the will of the leader and follower be involved. They must agree to accountability and growth.

In other words, even my feeble attempts at mentoring are better than my best attempts at impressing someone from the stage. Good, honest attempts at developmental relationships are better than no attempt at all.

--Excerpt taken from Mentoring, by Tim Elmore

Thursday, February 17, 2005

二月當機天

二月真是適合當機的月份。繼我的網站伺服器當機之後,我們辦公室(佛羅里達州州政府教育局)的檔案伺服器也在昨天當了!當機的結果是只要跟電腦有關的事情幾乎都做不了了。原本以為會比較輕鬆,沒想到卻還是有一大堆事情要做。

By the way,趁著話題還在當機,如果在讀我的文章的同時你的電腦檔案沒有備份的,建議你快快去備份一下。不要等到真的當機的時候才後悔莫及!

Thursday, February 03, 2005

The Cage

Recently we put up a hummingbird feeder with four feeding stations. Almost immediately it became popular with the hummingbirds that live in our area. Two, three, or even four birds would feed at one time. We refilled the feeder at least once a day. Suddenly the usage decreased to almost nothing. The feeder needed filling only about once a week.

The reason for the decreased usage soon became apparent. A male bird had taken over the feeder as his property. He is now the only hummingbird who uses our feeder. He feeds and then sits in a nearby tree, rising to attack any bird that approaches his feeder. Guard duty occupies his every waking hour. He is an effective guard. The only time another bird gets to use the feeder is when the self-appointed owner is momentarily gone to chase away an intruder.

We soon realized that the hummingbird was teaching us a valuable lesson. By choosing to assume ownership of the feeder, he is forfeiting his freedom. He is no longer free to come and go as he wished. He is tied to the work of guarding his feeder. He is possessed by his possession. His freedom of action is as circumscribed as if he were in a cage. He is caged by a situation he has created.

Written by W. L. Barnes

美國大學Accreditation查詢網站

http://www.ope.ed.gov/accreditation/Search.asp
這個由美國教育部所設立的網站讓你查詢所有美國大學的Accreditation。如果你在申請學校,不要忘了查查你所申請的學校看看它是不是美國教育部所承認的。

Monday, January 17, 2005

Remeber MLK

Nonviolence is absolute commitment to the way of love. Love is not emotional bash; it is not empty sentimentalism. It is the active outpouring of one's whole being into the being of another.

--Martin Luther King, Jr. 1957
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Thursday, January 13, 2005

重病中

很久沒有感冒了,每想到這次竟然會這麼嚴重!去給醫生看,結果醫生說感冒病毒是沒有藥可以醫的,要我好好休息就是了!

Saturday, January 01, 2005